here things that i note in my head. they're not deal-breakers at all, just things that i form judgements about. though, i have a hard time sticking to my often very mean judgements over time because i like most everyone, eventually. it's a cool trick to see beautiful things in people :) a list:
- was he in a fraternity? was he in a business fraternity? is he a banker? this is a proxy for do you have a soul? are you a tool? just kidding, but not really.
- how much does he tip? how does he treat service people? i grew up with generous tippers. we should always treat people who do things for us well. actually, we should always treat everyone well, regardless of how they act toward you.
- does he have many close friends? does this person form lasting, meaningful relationships with people? is he empathetic?
- is he close to his family? (too dependent? does not care at all?) how does he talk about them? (appreciative? annoyed? too obedient?) is he friends with his siblings?
- how does he interact with my friends? is he geniune?
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what about how he looks in tight jeans?
That's a good list...but why the hating on business fraternities?!?
how about how does he look naked? but more importantly, is he fun in bed?
yah i shouldn't hate on business fraternities or anyone. it just seemed silly for people to be so focused on getting a job and networking as an undergrad. i think about business fraternity people: you'll look for the right job for the rest of your life, why don't you enjoy all the other cool stuff going on at the university? i would hope college (business school excluded and that's just fine) is about more than a prereq for gaining employment.
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